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Date: Sat Apr 13 00:14:47 2002
From: Xena
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Rape Fantasy?To whom it may concern
This is my first time out on this site and I like many others have
the desire to be "RAPED". I have been doing a lot of research
on this topic recently because for the longest time I felt that there
was something wrong with me and that I needed help. I have now come
to the understanding that a person with a fantasy of being raped does
not really want tobe raped but infact playact in a submissive role.
They must always know that thaey are actually safe and that if they
want it to stop it will stop. I strongly believe that no woman who
fantasizes about being raped wants it to happen with a stanger. I
believe that they want it to be with someone that they trust but who
will help forfill this fantasy. I know that for myself I have felt
like this for an extreme amount of time but have not been able to
let it out of my system until recently with a boyfriend that I have
been with for a year and a half. That is why I have started researching
about this because my boyfriend is not in to this kind of stuff and
thinks I have problems. I needed to know if there were other people
who thought the same way I did because I knew it was very common.
I believe it's triggered by actually having suffered a real sexual
assault, abuse, or feeling violated in the past. And by playacting
within safe boundaries and guidelines is their way of healing themselves,
or gaining a sense of control in the situation. It doesn't necessarily
have to be sex, or it doesn't have to be acted out the same way it
occured. That's why it's called a fantasy. The most important aspect
of any dominance and submission roleplaying is a safeword. The person
playing the submissive role must be able to use this word AT ANYTIME,
and stop play immediately.
Heres my problem though and this is where I would like some help.
My boyfriend does not want to take part in any of this and I can't
take it anymore because it's something I have to do and let out of
my system. I as a person with a rape fetish need to make my fantasy
come true so that I may experience the extreme and utter orgasm. Are
there any tips that anybody might be able to give me that I could
possibly say or do to get my boyfriend help me fulfill my fantasy?
I really need this to take place. PLEASE HELP.
Signed
Utterly Dazed and Confused
Xena
P.s. PLEASE RESPOND to xena_4_u@hotmail.com