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In Response To: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Rape Fantasy?
 Date: Fri Apr 19 22:14:08 2002
From: Fighter
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Rape Fantasy?

Try this...Ask you boyfriend if he wants to play a game. In
this game, his goal is to "take you" and your goal is to
try as
hard as possible to stop him. You might make it more
enticing by telling him that his goal is to "take you from
behind," or in any other way he might be particularly fond of

but reluctant to ask for. Take the word "rape" out of
the
explanation. A lot of guys will get hung up on that word --
they don't want to be rapists. Call it the "Fight Game."

Emphasis and reemphasis the word "game." Remind him
to "PLAY hard," and such. If your boyfriend was a fan of
the
movie "Fight Club," you might be able to use that as an

analogy for the "Fight Game" (in the movie they even have

something like a SAFEWORD to signal the stop of the fight).
Possibly, he just plain not into it, in which case nothing you
can do will change it. Communication is the key.

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