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In Response To: Nice guys vs. assholesMessage Thread:
Date: Wed Nov 6 11:29:53 2002
From: RB
Subject: Re: Nice guys vs. assholesMan I'll tell you why. First of all this phenomenon is some psychological
pattern that women can't help and it plays itself out on many levels
I'll try my best to explain the ones I understand. It's like watching
a great dramatic movie that takes you through the highs and lows and
you end on a high. Women are all about drama and emotion, and excite
ment. First of all you have to be attractive in the first place to
get into the relationship with them, but after you've met that criterian
and you treat them decent initially. It is all over from there.
The worse you treat them the more and more they continue to try and
structure a happy ending to the movie. All you have to do is give
them some good things every now and then to look forward to to break
it up. The rest of the time treat them like shit and they will never
leave you because they thrive on the drama. And the contrast between
the good of you and the bad of you. The good you do looks ten times
better coming from you, because most of the time you treat them like
shit. So they think there must be a good heart inside and that eventually
that good side will win out. Every woman wants to change a man from
not being a jerk(how he treats all women) to a loving husband because
that makes her something special. They want to be that special someone
to that man. It makes them feel like the ultimate female who can
be everything to a man. Also there is an inherent nature in people
in general to think that those who are arrogant know what the fuck
they are doing. Look at people like Bill O'Rielly, or Jesse Ventura,
professional wrestlers. Professional athletes. These are all cocky
dick who pull women like crazy. They are drawn to confidence, arrogance,
strength(not necessarily physical), and power. These are the traits
of the alpha male which all hetero sexual women are looking for, and
it is the same thing that gets them treated like shit.
Thank you very much-pass it along.
RB